4 tahapan cinta menurut Essay 1 Cm between you and me oleh Kim Eunjung

 


Kalian sempet baca gak essay 1 cm yang ditulis oleh Kim Eunjung dengan ilustrasi dari Yang Hyun Jong. Essay 1 cm between you and me sendiri merupakan hasil penelitian Kim Eunjung tentang cinta. Emang sih banyak banget riset yang ada tentang cinta.

Di buku yang diterbitakan dari essay ini, Kim Eunjung kasih 5 bab tahapan dalam cinta. Penasaran? Yuk scroll ke bawah.

Tahap pertama: Suatu hari tiba-tiba saja



Kisah cinta dari pandangan pertama dimulai. Bab ini cerita tentang bagaimana cinta itu dimulai. Hati diibaratkan sebagai sebuah pintu kadang kita berada di sisi orang yang mengetuk kadang juga di sisi orang yang harus membuka pintu. Tahapan cinta ini dimana perlakuan pasangan kita terus baik, perasaan kita membumbung di awan. Istilah cinta itu buta pas banget buat dimasukkan ke tahapan ini.

Tahap kedua: Jika terus seperti ini



Tahap kedua ini bagaimana pasangan saling menguatkan satu sama lain. Dalam hidup ini kita pasti bakalan menghadapi masalah juga tekanan. Tapi ketika pasangan kita di samping kita, menguatkan kita. Rasa lebih lengkap karena pasangan kita berada di sisi kita sangat mencirikan tahap kedua ini.

Tahap ketiga: Semakin jauh semakin dalam



Di tahapan ketiga kita mulai mengenal akrab pasangan kita. Kita juga mulai bisa melihat kemiripan mereka dengan ayah atau ibu kita. Rasa nyaman berkembang menjadi rasa percaya pada pasangan kita. Rasanya, kita semakin mengenal satu sama lain misalnya tau makanan favorit satu sama lain sampai kebiasaan-kebiasaan kecil pasangan kita.

Tahap 4: Terkadang Berjauhan



Kadang, diperlukan jarak buat mengukur seberapa besar cinta kita pada pasangan. Entah dipisahkan karena pendidikan, pekerjaan atau bahkan liburan yang sebentar. Manusia perlu jarak atau waktu sendiri. Gak jarang, jarak itu bikin kita semakin kangen dan sayang sama pasangan kita.

Jarak di tahap 4 ini juga bercerita tentang pertengkaran yang membuat cinta semakin berkurang hingga akhirnya hubungan cinta itu kandas.

Tahap 5: Dan kemudian happy and



Di tahap kelima ini biasanya terjadi buat orang sudah bertunangan atau menikah. Pasangan yang baru memulai hidup berdua mulai merasakan banyak hal kecil dalam perbedaan mereka. Kadang juga banyak pertengkaran terjadi karena hal kecil.

Kelebihan dan kekurangan kalian justru bikin saling melengkapi lho! Misalnya si ‘dia’ kurang pede kamu berusaha buat menyemangati dia kala dia harus berbicara di depan orang banyak. Kalian juga bakal merasakan sensasi si ‘dia’ sebagai pasangan dan sahabat yang udah akrab. 

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