3 Reasons avoiding problems is ultimately wrong.
We've all
experienced moments where encountering a problem led to the instinct to avoid
or run away from it. As humans, facing challenges is a normal part of life.
However, many times, we opt to escape from these problems.
Personally,
as someone living with schizophrenia, I've often found myself wanting to evade
my mental health challenges. Initially, acceptance of my condition was
difficult, leading me to want to escape—both physically and mentally—from
confronting the reality. Perhaps you can relate to instances when fear of
problems compelled you to choose avoidance.
I've
repeatedly chosen to run away until I realized the significant 3 reasons why
avoiding problems is ultimately wrong.
# 1 Running
away from problems leads to deeper consequences.
During my
university days, fear led me to fail a class. Avoidance of tasks due to
apprehension of facing the lecturer resulted in severe consequences. The
repercussions of evading problems can escalate, potentially leading to job loss
or other severe outcomes. Understanding that avoidance can intensify
consequences is crucial.
# 2 Avoidance
results in tackling things the wrong way
Fictional
characters and real-life instances, like Rapunzel in "Tangled,"
illustrate the consequences of trying to escape problems. Rapunzel initially
chose to flee from her troubles by following Flynn Rider. Eventually, she
realized the importance of facing challenges directly. Just like her, we have
the choice to confront issues the right way, not through avoidance.
# 3 Running
away impedes personal growth.
I've experienced stagnation when I avoided
confronting issues, such as when I distanced myself from an ex-best friend. By
doing so, I realized I was stunting not just my present but also my future. It
took a break from university and a determined decision to face my
problems—despite social media attacks—to move forward. Gradually, I learned
that embracing challenges instead of avoiding them is pivotal for personal
growth.
Reflecting
on these experiences, I acknowledge that facing problems head-on is essential
for growth. Have you encountered similar situations? Feel free to share your
thoughts and experiences in the comments.
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