Apa sich love language kamu?

 




Jujur, akhir-akhir ini banyak kan yang suka nanya gitu love language kamu apa sich?

Kita mulai yuk dari definisi love language.

Love language secara bebas diterjemahkan sebagai Bahasa cinta. Biar lebih jelasnya Love language itu gimana cara kita buat mengungkapkan rasa cinta kita. Ga Cuma ke pasangan tapi juga ke orang terkasih seperti orangtua, sahabat, dan adik/kakak.

Love language itu ada jenisnya ga kak?

Nih, ada lima macam love language yang popular di kalangan Masyarakat.

# 1 Act of service

Kamu menunjukkan rasa cinta kamu dengan memberi Tindakan atau melayani. Misalnya nih membawakan makanan dan membantu pekerjaan rumah gitu.

# 2 Words of affirmation

Kamu nunjukkin rasa cinta dengan kata-kata. Misalnya nih bilang I love you, bilang makasih udah jadi sahabat aku dan lainnya.

# 3 Quality time

Cara menunjukkan rasa cinta dengan sengaja meluangkan waktu buat orang terkasih . Misalnya, rela cuti demi liburan bareng keluarga, sengaja mematikan ponsel pas quality time dan sebagainya.

# 4 Physical touch

Kamu nunjukin rasa cinta kamu dengan sentuhan fisik. Misalnya cium di kening sebelum berangkat, berpelukan dan bergandengan tangan.

# 5 Receiving gifts

Cara menunujukkan rasa cinta dengan memberi dan menerima hadiah. Misalnya nih kamu kasih hadiah tas buatan kamu sendiri ke orangtua, Beliin berbagai snack yang adek kamu pengen, kasih produk-produk yang dibutuhin dan dipengenin sama pacar.

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