4 steps to create a mental health friendly resolution
Happy new year! You’ve done well last year may this
year be a great year for you too!
Do you usually write New Year’s resolutions? Me too
and I regularly evaluate it on December 31st. As a mentally ill
person most of the time I feel pessimistic because for like five years I’ve
been on the same medication dosage that makes me stagnant in my mental illness
journey. Most of the time, you feel like it's great to even survive right?
This year, let’s talk about 4 steps to create a mental
health-friendly resolution.
# 1 Focus on achievable resolutions
Don’t write I will be free from this mental illness
anymore because realistically it just doesn’t happen that fast! Believe me, I did
it last year but didn’t accomplish it at the end of the year but I’m making
progress that’s a good thing right? Focus first on stabilizing and controlling
your emotions or taking your medication regularly which can help you to get your
dosage of medication reduced.
# 2 Practice self-compassion
In every resolution I usually get three things to
point out: Yet, Not Yet and making progess. Learn to be greateful when you’re
making progress for example you dosage of medichine reduced or maybe you
started to work out full month! Don’t forget to celebrate every small wins like
treating yourself your favourite food or check out your wishlist.
# 3 Set intentions instead of resolutions
Set intention like I prioritize self care, I will try
to take a break for my mental health. This is more forgiving. For example I set
a goal for my 2024 Resolution to maybe find a side job eventough I did not yet
achive it still I can forgive myself especially when I didn’t find my main job
yet.
# 4 Incorporate mental health goals
As mentioned in # 1 step. Incorporate your mental
health goals like taking your medicine regularly or maybe being more active in
your mental illness community that’s also a great start.
Creating mental health-friendly resolutions means prioritizing kindness to yourself and setting realistic, achievable goals that align with your well-being journey. Remember, progress isn’t linear, and it’s okay to have setbacks as long as you keep moving forward. Celebrate small victories, practice self-compassion, and always acknowledge that surviving and striving are already significant accomplishments. Let 2024 be the year you grow at your own pace, with resolutions that nurture your mental health.
Sources:
https://self-compassion.org/the-research/
https://hpalivewell.com/how-to-make-smart-goals/
https://self-compassion.org/what-is-self-compassion/
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